Top Beauty Secret...!

No, I am not going to share my skincare routine or endorse a beauty brand here. Today, I want to share the real secret behind the glow that make some ladies stand out from the crowd without even trying for it. We live in a world of trends now so it has become very common for women to copy that trend and try to do it better than others around her. We always notice that even though hundred women in some social gathering wore the same kind of clothing and jewelry, few of them stand out and catch your attention, while others just become the part of the crowd. Every one of us has realized this at least once till now. Why is it they look so charismatic and carried it so well while others couldn’t? You kept wondering I did everything as she did then why don’t I look as attractive as her. I will tell you why. She rocked that outfit like an empress because it was in tune with her energy, her personality and her mood at that time. Her outer appearance was in total alignment with her aura. She listened to her heart carefully and then decided which color, which jewel, which hairstyle, what kind of makeup she want to put on with it. She didn’t search latest fashion trends and then copied someone else’s style to look pretty just like her. She first asked herself what she wants, envisioned it in her mind and then brought that vision into her reality. Her outer appearance was reflection of her unique personality, her energy and her heart’s desire. That’s why she was able to embody her feminine charm in full glory. Everyone was in awe of her charm and beauty. You on the other hand copied someone else’s style or just followed trends mindlessly to look like them but didn’t get the desired results. That’s the ultimate truth, you can copy their style but can’t copy their energy. Energy is unique just like your finger prints. When you bask in the glory of your own energy, you get amazing results.

We all are so unique and beautiful it’s sad that so many women never tap in their own energy field. We all have a unique persona, tastes, scents, desires and features but in order to fit in society standards we all end up looking the same. So many times women change their style and become something entirely different to please their love interest, because their partners like certain clothing styles, hair colors, or makeup preferences. I have been there and done that. Believe me you will change yourself from head to toe for him and still it won’t be enough. He might compliment you for your effort once or twice but it isn’t going to change his love and perspective about you. You will still never be enough for him. Every now and then he will go out in search of something new, even after all of your efforts. If he doesn’t look at you like you are some kind of magic and can’t take off his eyes away from you, then he is not the one, no matter if he is your spouse, lover, boyfriend or the father of your child. You simply chose a wrong man, walk away from him instead of changing yourself to please him. In actual truth, you can’t change yourself you can only change your outer appearance and it will make no difference as to how people will see you. They say beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, its true up to some extent but in my opinion, it should be strongly defined in the mind of that beautiful person first. When your definition of beauty is strongly rooted in your mind, you reflect the same vibe in the world with confidence. Only then others will see you for who you are and will appreciate your authenticity. World is simply a mirror that reflects back everything you sent out.

So, I urge all the lovely feminine out there to embrace your own feminine energy. Ask your body and your heart what it desires. Sit with yourself and love yourself the same way you expect others to love you. When you will start listening to your feminine energy openheartedly instead of forcing your rules on her, you will shine like a star. Always ask yourself how I can make it more special with my unique touch. We all have a diva hidden inside us who’s waiting to mesmerize world with her glamour. Be unique and authentic while you carry yourself in the world. Explore your innate beauty and while doing that don’t limit it to just your appearance, re-explore your qualities, behavioral patterns and mind patterns as well. Try to understand if they are your own or you embraced it to fit in. It will help to recover your strength. We carry so much power within ourselves. Feminine energy is diverse in many ways but at the end of the day it’s all about loving yourself unconditionally just the way you are. It doesn’t beg anyone, instead it demands respect, love, nurturing and attention without even asking for it. It about becoming a magnetic flower that pulls everything and everyone it desires effortlessly, by just sitting at one place. Seems pretty cool, right? There is mystery in hiding some part of your body and then revealing some other. Its super fun. Keep experimenting with your vibes, beliefs, scents, styles and qualities you wish to embrace within yourself. Pamper that little girl inside you, dance to the rhythm of your sensual self and allow her to come out without shame, spread your love and light with others to please your kind self who is so generous and has so much to share with world, honor your warrior self by being bold, confident and setting healthy boundaries so that people will think twice before trying to take advantage of your love and kind heart. Rock the queen within you by being independent, sassy, smart, ambitious, passionate and managing your world like a pro. My dream is to see every women to stand in her full power. I hope we will help each other to do that by smashing patriarchy in the face. Till then lots of love to you all.